I’m single. I am not married I am not dating I am not in a situation.

I’m Queer. I find myself attracted for the purpose of a relationship the energy of a person. The chosen sexuality of the person doesn’t matter, the genitalia of the person does not matter.

I mostly date Black people. I’m open to other races but Blacks are my preference and always will be.

While I am capable of monogamy, and I do not rule out the possibility of monogamy in the future, my relationship of choice is non monogamous. While it may not be poly in the way I define it, monogamy is not my first choice.

I’m pretty good in bed. While I think I am better at it with men than women, I’ve never had a partner who would not return if given the opportunity. I’ve had a stalker, I’ve had a woman decide she would lie and ruin my life because I took sex off the table. Don’t let that scare you though.

I am into S&M. I am equal parts sadist and masochist.

I am politically liberal socially progressive and a bit of what some might call a fiscal socialist. This is not a phase.

I am a bad liar.

While I am one to dating I haven’t done a lot of it. I end up in relationships. What I am good at though are casual encounters, the difference now though is they do not hold the appeal they used to so are some point you will have to show me the potential for something more.

I’m a nerd about things like science fiction and Marvel.

I’m at a point of rebuilding in my life. I’m in a new city, with a credit rating held hostage by student loans and a life altering event 5 years ago. I’m not seeking an ‘arrangement’ but you should know the situation you meet me in now is not the one you will find me in a year from now so expect change.

I don’t suffer fools. Gladly or otherwise.

Aphrodite Brown