I’ve been a little quiet lately, it’s been busy in this here world of mine.

As London burns, I have lots of thoughts in my head, but I think at the end of it all when I have the time to write an actual post and not just an outline, I want to have a real conversation with you.

Ohhhh there’s something on my mind, and its not going anywhere as long as the mentee is around.

Who are we as women?

The Man and I had a conversation, yes there are moments when we talk, and we were discussing my “issues” with submission.  That it was the design of society to have women submit, yet there is something biological that slows the process of acceptance.  I dont think that he was just trying to make me feel better….He knows how to do that without stroking my ego in THAT manner.

I want to talk about what we as women see, and how in a world with fewer and fewer role models, our vizion becomes the standard, and how that standard is warped and designed to keep the cycle of dysfunction going like the energizer bunny.

I want to talk about owning the choices that we make, and understanding that just because it used to ‘work’ doesn’t mean that it will.

I want to talk about men not being complex creatures, and us as women putting a halt to splitting the atom in our relations with them.

I want to talk about all of that … and more. 

I wonder who will be listening though.